Advice Columns and the Idea of Marriage

I was walking through the Operating Room lounge when I noticed the newspaper on the table open to an advice column.  Being intrigued by advice columns for many reasons but mostly to see if I agree with the advice I read about this woman’s issue.  It seems that she and

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Work Place Stress

  Once again let me remind all that stress is about fear and fear is about forgetting who you really are.  You are a magnificent spectacular unlimited eternal being.  That is really all there is to eliminating stress in the work place, not just coping with it or managing it.

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Self Esteem

  Just a simple clarification of an abused concept…your self esteem. It should be as magnificent as your truth which is magnificent. It should not be based on what you have acheived or who you are related to or how much money you make.  Once you accept and embrace your truth

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Magnificent, Unlimited and Eternal

Magnificent, unlimited and eternal…every one’s truth. Not in a religious sense but it just is. I could stop there and everything else would unfold before every person in such a miraculous way. If they just stopped to think about that concept regularly throughout the day, in response to every situation,

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The Steps to Stress Free Living

  I have studied books, audiotapes (and cassettes if you remember them), CDs, webinars and attended lectures and seminars in order to find a way to live well and part of that means getting rid of stress. I am not talking about learning to cope with stress but rather not

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The Essence of Cool

What exactly is the essence of cool? Maybe the word “cool” dates me but I think most of us conceptually know what I mean though the definition is not so clear. Actually the dictionary states “dispassionate calmness and self-control” but the essence is something words can’t really describe. Steve McQueen

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Trying to Stop

Whatever you are trying to stop doing, your chances of long term success are about 1 percent…seems rather low and it is. The reason is that any time you focus on what you don’t want, you make it more powerful. The trick is to focus on what you want to

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