The Essence of Cool

What exactly is the essense of cool?  Maybe the word “cool” dates me but I think most of us conceptually know what I mean though the definition is not so clear.  Actually the dictionary states “dispassionate calmness and self-control” but the essence is something words can’t really describe. Steve McQueen

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Steps to Stress Free Living

I have studied books, audiotapes (and cassettes if you remember them), CDs, webinars and attended lectures and seminars in order to find a way to live well and part of that means getting rid of stress.  I am not talking about learning to cope with stress but rather not having

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Change Your Set Point

If you are unaware of your set point…your subconscious set point, look no further for your life will tell you clearly what it is. Your subconscious runs about 95 to 99 percent of your life. You walk, chew, drive, breath etc without any thought or very little thought. It is

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Belief and Desire

We have all heard the stories of women finding the strength to lift a car to save a child and other examples of having a desire so strong it temporarily overrides our belief in what is possible. It makes logical sense that if one person can override their belief in

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Spend Time with People Who Uplift You

    Just imagine that we create our own reality and since no one can refute that possibility, or prove it wrong in other words, why not make the most of the possibility. A great way to enhance your ability to make your dreams come true is to spend time

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Do What You Want

The best of life comes when you take it as it comes and stay in the moment…release your resistance and preconceived judgments and just go with the flow…follow your desire and attraction and stop denying yourself what you want… Keep your vision of what you want clearly in front of

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Right Now is Just Right

Just a simple message to everyone who is doubting, or feeling inadequate, or thinking they are not doing enough, or lamenting dreams unfulfilled or opportunities missed. There is never a time where you are not magnificent or that the dreams and visions you have for your life are lost.  The

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Happiness First then Success

People wonder why there are no action steps that guarantee success.  It is because all the action in the world without the inspiration and belief in success will not get results.  There are many who work very hard and get nowhere and many who seem to not work at all

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A Pushed Button Helps you Remember

It seems to me that many problems if not all problems in a romantic relationship begin when one partner pushes one of our buttons. The irony is that is what romantic relationships are designed to do….the attraction is strong enough to bring two people close enough for their hot buttons

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Dreams, Senses and Emotion

    We seem to go through life doing things backwards and making things more difficult.  We seem to think that without hardship there will be no reward.  Yet there are many who are rewarded without hardship and many who endure hardship and never experience any reward. The idea that

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